select cat from directory where is_archived=0 and site_url != '' and (city='wilmington manor' OR city='wilmington_manor') and (state='DE' OR state='Delaware')
select cat from directory where is_archived=0 and site_url != '' and (city='wilmington manor' OR city='wilmington_manor') and (state='DE' OR state='Delaware')
union
select cat from affiliate_directory where is_archived=0 and site_url != '' and (FIND_IN_SET('wilmington_manor', city) OR city='all' ) and (state='DE' OR state='Delaware' OR state='all')