select cat from directory where is_archived=0 and site_url != '' and (city='deming' OR city='deming') and (state='NM' OR state='New Mexico')
select cat from directory where is_archived=0 and site_url != '' and (city='deming' OR city='deming') and (state='NM' OR state='New Mexico')
union
select cat from affiliate_directory where is_archived=0 and site_url != '' and (FIND_IN_SET('deming', city) OR city='all' ) and (state='NM' OR state='New Mexico' OR state='all')