select cat from directory where is_archived=0 and site_url != '' and (city='parish' OR city='parish') and (state='NY' OR state='New York')
select cat from directory where is_archived=0 and site_url != '' and (city='parish' OR city='parish') and (state='NY' OR state='New York')
union
select cat from affiliate_directory where is_archived=0 and site_url != '' and (FIND_IN_SET('parish', city) OR city='all' ) and (state='NY' OR state='New York' OR state='all')